
so on October 11, 2008 after like 9 years of dating my friend Robyn & her boyfriend Ian were finally married.. it was a day that i always knew would come eventually, just wasn't sure when. everything looked beautiful. Friday (the 10th) was their rehearsal but it was also my cousin Derrik's Football Senior Night so I couldn't miss it. but after the game I went to the legion where the reception was being held and helped decorate...everything went together so well. i love the whole "fall theme" wedding.. if JC and I couldn't have had a summer wedding...a fall wedding would have been it. then Saturday Kari and I went and got our hair done and then went to the church to start getting ready for pictures and stuff. Ian was in the bathroom vomiting for hours before the wedding.. he said he thought he was getting sick..but i think it was nerves.. anyways we didn't think he would make it thru the ceremony without getting sick..but he did. it went well and after a few pictures after the ceremony we were off to the reception. the rest of the night went good..it was so much fun... apparently i must have drank after someone who had some germs because I'm now miserably sick. sore throat, runny nose, coughing, tight chest.... GREAT! i hate being sick... i was hoping now that i don't work at a doctors office i won't get sick anymore but apparently that's not true.
but even though I'm sick now it was well worth it because i had alot of fun on Saturday night. Justin was only there for about an hour because he had played football and softball all day so he was pretty sore and tired.. so he ended up going home but for the most part i had fun with my friends. speaking of my friends...i have 4 best friends. 2 of them don't have the best luck with guys.. the guys they do date are worthless druggie losers who will never have a future. take for instance first my best friend tabby...she dated a guy who was physically and mental abusive and just didn't treat her the way she should be treated...they dated after high school but she finally was tired of the bullshit and they split up...she's been with a couple of guys since then for short periods of time but the nice ones she just didn't feel the same i guess...so they broke up. she's a pretty girl who would treat any man so good. she'd cook, clean, and do whatever to make them happy. she's sorta the "old fashioned" house type of person. but as a guy i would think that's a huge plus. there are alot of guys i meet thru JC playing softball or work or whatever that I would LOVE to hook tabby up with but sometimes it just seems like a loss cause because I feel like they aren't her type... that she wouldn't be interested.... so Ian has a friend (who's been in jail at least three times) who I guess him and Robyn is trying to hook Tabby up with. Well I didn't really know the whole story but ht was at the wedding and him and Tabby was dancing...and I told her that I felt like she was taking a step back. which i truly believe she is. he just got out of jail...he can't find a good job because of his record...and he drinks.. ALOT.. why would you want to start a relationship with this guy? i don't understand why she sets her standards so low?? she could do SO MUCH BETTER!
now..my friend Kari...let me just say she is BEAUTIFUL... i mean she is sooo pretty... yes...she's got a little meat on her bones...but hey what girl isn't?? i think skinny girls who don't have any meat on them is disgusting.. girls with a little meet are gorgeous. she's lost like over 50 lbs. and she looks good. damn good. the guy she is with on the other hand...is damn ugly. haha and he's a dick. he calls her every name in the book and he's just downright mean to her. they once dated back about 2 years ago....he was okay when they first started dating but he started changing (he was on drugs real bad...stopped for Kari..but then started back on them again). one night I got a call from my mom saying that on the police scanner it gave Kari's name and said "domestic dispute." i jumped in my car and took off down the road to their house.. i found their place in a mess where he was throwing things and going crazy and Kari sitting on the porch crying... she said i want to leave and before she got the word leave out of her mouth i was calling my family and JC to get every truck they own and come help me load up her stuff... while she sat and watched all her hard work of trying to make a happy home fall apart... i was loading up trucks with everything she owned... they stayed split up for a bout a year...she just did the single thing and we went out alot having alot of fun...her and mike got back together around march 2007.... i didn't like the idea but if that's what she thought would make her happy...then okay. she has to learn from herself...so then in august of 2007 she knew that her weight was making her unhappy... she didn't like the way she looked and she decided to do something about it. so by around the new year she had lost almost 50 lbs...and has kept it off and kept losing up until now...one year later. anyways..her and mike are still dating but he's starting to change again...is he on drugs again??? maybe... is he selling drugs again?? maybe... i don't know..but i do know for the past month or two Kari just doesn't seem happy....i wish she'd break up with him and let me introduce her to some guys that would treat her good. even if they don't fall in love and get married... at least find some guy friends that you guys can go out to the movies and hang out together and have fun. she deserves somebody who is kind and generous and someone who puts her first... not what she has now...not someone who doesn't have a steady job or a drivers license..or a car....or a future..
Kari is a lot like me..she wants things in life.. nice things... nice car, nice house, nice stuff, kids, a future..a promising future. and she deserves EVERY SINGLE THING. but with the guy she is with now...she'll never get those things... she told me over the weekend that she's been wanting to leave him for the last month or so but just never really got the balls to do it.. but she said she thinks shes ready....i haven't talked to her since Sunday so I'm not sure what's happened this past week but whatever it is i hope she knows I'm here for her and whatever she needs I'll do. ***i talked to tabby..who talked to kari and i guess mike called crying and really upset so she told him she would give him one month to straighten up or she's leaving him....we'll see what happens..i don't think he can do it...but maybe he'll prove me wrong....we'll see.*** i just want her and tabby both to be happy. Robyn & I are both married...and were both happy. That's all we want for our other two friends is the same. It took me 7 years and Robyn 9 years to finally tie the knot..haha but we both always knew it was coming.... i think it's coming for Kari and tabby too...atleast if i have anything to say about it....i have the best friends ever and maybe I'm being too involved in their relationships..i don't know.. maybe i am?? the thing is I'm so extremely happy in my life that i want the same for them. i want them to feel what it feels like to be so in love. i want them to know what its like to wake up in the morning next to someone who would die for you. i want them to be happy because they deserve it. i think if it was the other way around..they'd do the same for me...
speaking of life being awesome...it is. hehe i love this time of year... the leaves are falling and the weather is changing... I really want to have people over this weekend to wear hoodies and flip flops and enjoy the weather outside....but I'm sick.. so that probably wont' happen..but I'm hoping to plan for it for next Saturday..we'll see what happens...
Yesterday was "The Covered Bridge Festival" in Mansfield & Bridgeton Indiana. I go every year.... mostly for the food but I buy stuff too. hehe I bought one of those limestone rock things that you see in people's yards with their last names on them. I'll take pics when I feel a little better...but I LOVE IT! It turned out sooo good. I've been wanting one forever but I had to wait until we got married otherwise it wouldn't really make since for it to say "The Copeland's" and I wasn't one yet. :o)
to see more pics of Robyn & Ian's wedding check out my flickr account.